Do you have a husband who always wants to be in control of everything? If your husband is one of the most self centered persons that you ever met, I am sure he is often unable to understand your thinking. A narcissistic husband does not have patience for almost everything and they have strong self-esteem. They will get angry easily when things are not going accordingly to their ways. For wives that are suffering from unhealthy levels of narcissism such as physical abuse, I would advise you to leave your husband immediately in order not to get hurt and if you are suspecting your husband has Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), you need to seek some assistance from a mental health professional.
Normally a narcissistic husband will exhibit selfishness, arrogance and confidence. In fact, most of them have high confidence and success in doing things. I believe when you are dating with your husband in the beginning, you are attracted to his determination in achieving goals. However, it is over the time, you find it breathless and tired to deal with a narcissistic husband as he is always trying to manipulate everything.
When dealing with a narcissistic man, fighting and arguing your rights will not help to make the situation better. They are most afraid of losing and don't ever think you will win by arguing with them. If you start to reason about certain things with them, they will definitely turn around the table and make it sound like you are wrong. The best thing that you can do to narcissistic man, it is to ignore and leave them alone as proving them wrong will only turn them into rage and revengeful.
You need to understand what a narcissist is thinking. Since they can't afford to lose and you want more real love from them, the key thing is to make them believe in you completely and that is to praise them unconditionally. It may sound simple, but it can take some time for you to learn how to praise a narcissist especially when you cannot agree with his thinking and actions. When you start buying trust from a narcissist and he believes you, he will start to appear more "responsible" in wanting to protect you. He probably will begin to start showering you with love unknowingly when he believes it can make him looks more powerful over you as a result of your admiration.
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