This technique is one that many women are aware of, but few can actually execute properly. This one extraordinarily complex and easy to maneuver technique is none other than the ability of 'charm'.
Let me explain, the real way to captivate a man's attention and to flirt with him like no other woman can, is to be different, unique, sweet and seductive all at the same time.
Below you will find several methods that can help you master the ability to charm.
Whereas, be sure to add your own flip of ingenuity to each suggested method and watch as your personality grows into a glowing jewel of appraisal by those around you.
1. Laugh and Smile:
Men love a good woman who knows how to have a good time and go with the flow. So be sure you remain relaxed, have fun, and be at ease with any possible mishap.
2. Use Body Language:
Using positive body language sends a subconscious signal that you are attracted to him. This will have him feeling so good in your presence that he'll never want to leave.
Angle your body towards his as you speak to him, sit or stand with decent posture, don't excessively slouch or cross your arms, and look approachable.
Open yourself up to a flirtatious encounter by readying yourself mentally, physically and emotionally. Above all, be confident and give a wink!
3. Be a Subtle Tease:
Engage in 'cutesy' behavior and win him over with a smile that could melt his heart. Get comfortable with your playful side. For example, place a competition on a quick bet.
Look into his eyes and tell him whoever looks away first has to get the next drink, or even up the ante!
Playing with your hair works well too, toss it over your shoulder, run your hands through it, even brush it behind your ear and you'll have him yearning to be near you.
4. Flirt With Your Eyes:
Give him a lingering stare from lowered lids (don't squint them!) as you first begin your conversation, or raise an eyebrow and give a slight grin before looking away.
This will likely intrigue him enough to continue the conversation.
In doing so, you are making him feel noticed and appreciated, and by smiling at the same time, you will show that you care enough to catch his attention.
If you notice him staring at you from across the room, maintain his eye contact for a few moments before looking away instead of doing so instantly. Perhaps even smile and wave - that may be all the assurance he needs to strike a conversation.
5. Be Interesting:
Make a move and strike a conversation with him yourself. You will certainly appear confident and intriguing if executed correctly. Ask him open-ended questions that you feel he might be interested in, or give him an honest compliment.
Try to figure out what the two of you have in common and get to know him, he will likely be flattered by your curiosity. Later on if the two of you develop a relationship, he will be impressed with how much you've absorbed about him and remembered!
Guys love intelligent women who know when to stand up for themselves, but they also dig a woman who understands humility, and knows a thing or two about making a man feel comfortable.
Plus, don't forget to laugh at some of his jokes and even crack a few of your own; even if your not so funny. Bad comedic timing can come off as hilarious if you can learn to laugh at yourself.
6. Mimic His Actions:
Now, I'm not suggesting that you play a game of shadow or repeat absolutely everything he says and does, that is best left for the children or an already close connection.
But you can however, take a sip of your drink at the same time or turn to look at something as he does. Don't make it obvious that you do this by doing it every single time, but do so every now and then.
He will pick up on it subconsciously as it happens, and it will bring you both down the same level, if only for a moment.
Every moment counts!
7. Surprise Him:
Hopefully the two of you went ahead and took the initiative, sharing your contacts between the two of you so can get a hold of each other later.
If so, then be sure you remember some of the things he told you in a previous conversation so that you can bring it up later and impress him with your inquisition.
Such as, if he mentioned he had to visit a family member in the hospital, remember to ask him later how they were doing, or something similar.
This will make him appreciate and value the time he shares with you that much more since you made him feel heard and understood.
8. Be Alluring:
Don't reveal too much information about yourself too quickly else you risk turning him away. Instead, be a tease and flirt with him through means of elusiveness. Be mysterious with the details you give away and only tell him the basics.
If he is truly interested, he will stick around to find out more.
Bite your lip from time to time as well, glance him over and make it slightly obvious that you are checking him out, then look away with a slight smile. Linger on his chest, bite your lip for a quick second, then snap back to his eyes.
You will send a huge rush of adrenaline through his core knowing that you dig his looks and hunger for more.
9. Make Slight Physical Contact:
By touching a man the right way for the first few times (which is usually in a quick and gentle manner), as well as seemingly by accident - you will send a chill through his skin at having breached the 'touch barrier'.
Touch him on the wrist, playfully tap him on the arm, rest your head on his shoulder so he feels as though he is comforting you, even tap his leg with yours if you are sitting side by side.
All of these are viable options at making contact and easing the tension, not to mention nerves, between the two of you.
10. Be Kind and Courteous:
Show care and compassion for others and your likely to receive it back twice-fold, in some way or another. Act like a lady and get treated like a lady, act like another one of the guys and you'll be considered another one of the guys.
However, there is nothing wrong with befriending his friends. If he see's you being buds with his friends and family, the more it will prove to him that you are easygoing, thus lessening the chance of you coming in between his relationships with them.
Focus more on him though, of course, and treat him as you would like to be treated. Don't try to be anyone that your not and don't try to impress him with something you have no idea about.
Be whom you were meant to be, which is none other than yourself!
Tip: Flirting should be a fun and natural occurrence, and as usual, practice makes perfect!
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/6411580
Below you will find several methods that can help you master the ability to charm.
Whereas, be sure to add your own flip of ingenuity to each suggested method and watch as your personality grows into a glowing jewel of appraisal by those around you.
1. Laugh and Smile:
Men love a good woman who knows how to have a good time and go with the flow. So be sure you remain relaxed, have fun, and be at ease with any possible mishap.
2. Use Body Language:
Using positive body language sends a subconscious signal that you are attracted to him. This will have him feeling so good in your presence that he'll never want to leave.
Angle your body towards his as you speak to him, sit or stand with decent posture, don't excessively slouch or cross your arms, and look approachable.
Open yourself up to a flirtatious encounter by readying yourself mentally, physically and emotionally. Above all, be confident and give a wink!
3. Be a Subtle Tease:
Engage in 'cutesy' behavior and win him over with a smile that could melt his heart. Get comfortable with your playful side. For example, place a competition on a quick bet.
Look into his eyes and tell him whoever looks away first has to get the next drink, or even up the ante!
Playing with your hair works well too, toss it over your shoulder, run your hands through it, even brush it behind your ear and you'll have him yearning to be near you.
4. Flirt With Your Eyes:
Give him a lingering stare from lowered lids (don't squint them!) as you first begin your conversation, or raise an eyebrow and give a slight grin before looking away.
This will likely intrigue him enough to continue the conversation.
In doing so, you are making him feel noticed and appreciated, and by smiling at the same time, you will show that you care enough to catch his attention.
If you notice him staring at you from across the room, maintain his eye contact for a few moments before looking away instead of doing so instantly. Perhaps even smile and wave - that may be all the assurance he needs to strike a conversation.
5. Be Interesting:
Make a move and strike a conversation with him yourself. You will certainly appear confident and intriguing if executed correctly. Ask him open-ended questions that you feel he might be interested in, or give him an honest compliment.
Try to figure out what the two of you have in common and get to know him, he will likely be flattered by your curiosity. Later on if the two of you develop a relationship, he will be impressed with how much you've absorbed about him and remembered!
Guys love intelligent women who know when to stand up for themselves, but they also dig a woman who understands humility, and knows a thing or two about making a man feel comfortable.
Plus, don't forget to laugh at some of his jokes and even crack a few of your own; even if your not so funny. Bad comedic timing can come off as hilarious if you can learn to laugh at yourself.
6. Mimic His Actions:
Now, I'm not suggesting that you play a game of shadow or repeat absolutely everything he says and does, that is best left for the children or an already close connection.
But you can however, take a sip of your drink at the same time or turn to look at something as he does. Don't make it obvious that you do this by doing it every single time, but do so every now and then.
He will pick up on it subconsciously as it happens, and it will bring you both down the same level, if only for a moment.
Every moment counts!
7. Surprise Him:
Hopefully the two of you went ahead and took the initiative, sharing your contacts between the two of you so can get a hold of each other later.
If so, then be sure you remember some of the things he told you in a previous conversation so that you can bring it up later and impress him with your inquisition.
Such as, if he mentioned he had to visit a family member in the hospital, remember to ask him later how they were doing, or something similar.
This will make him appreciate and value the time he shares with you that much more since you made him feel heard and understood.
8. Be Alluring:
Don't reveal too much information about yourself too quickly else you risk turning him away. Instead, be a tease and flirt with him through means of elusiveness. Be mysterious with the details you give away and only tell him the basics.
If he is truly interested, he will stick around to find out more.
Bite your lip from time to time as well, glance him over and make it slightly obvious that you are checking him out, then look away with a slight smile. Linger on his chest, bite your lip for a quick second, then snap back to his eyes.
You will send a huge rush of adrenaline through his core knowing that you dig his looks and hunger for more.
9. Make Slight Physical Contact:
By touching a man the right way for the first few times (which is usually in a quick and gentle manner), as well as seemingly by accident - you will send a chill through his skin at having breached the 'touch barrier'.
Touch him on the wrist, playfully tap him on the arm, rest your head on his shoulder so he feels as though he is comforting you, even tap his leg with yours if you are sitting side by side.
All of these are viable options at making contact and easing the tension, not to mention nerves, between the two of you.
10. Be Kind and Courteous:
Show care and compassion for others and your likely to receive it back twice-fold, in some way or another. Act like a lady and get treated like a lady, act like another one of the guys and you'll be considered another one of the guys.
However, there is nothing wrong with befriending his friends. If he see's you being buds with his friends and family, the more it will prove to him that you are easygoing, thus lessening the chance of you coming in between his relationships with them.
Focus more on him though, of course, and treat him as you would like to be treated. Don't try to be anyone that your not and don't try to impress him with something you have no idea about.
Be whom you were meant to be, which is none other than yourself!
Tip: Flirting should be a fun and natural occurrence, and as usual, practice makes perfect!
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/6411580
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