Problems With Your Girlfriend - Can You Repair the Relationship or Does It Have to End?
For the most part, relationships don't just come to an abrupt ending. You usually don't get caught up in a situation where you wake up one day and out of the blue your girlfriend is saying that she wants to see other people. Even when it kind of seems that way... a closer inspection will almost always show that there were some clues or signs that just did not get noticed. So, if you are at a point where you are recognizing or dealing with problems in the relationship, you may want to take note and really work on trying to repair things before they get out of hand.
You might be wondering if YOUR particular situation can be fixed and I am just going to go out on a limb and say that it probably can. I say this because the reality about break ups is... most of them did not have to happen if the two people involved did not want them to. Even though we live in a world of cliches where people will just kind of shrug their shoulders and say, "It did not work out," that's usually not the full story. Usually one of the people involved did not WANT it to work out.
That makes the difference right there.
Being the guy, you can kind of persuade your girlfriend to work things out if you go about it the right way. Now, by persuade, I don't mean to suggest that you should try and talk her into working things out with you. Most of the time, all that talking leads nowhere and you just end up reinforcing her decision to end the relationship. A much more POWERFUL way of persuading your girlfriend to work things out is to make her feel so strongly CONNECTED to you that she won't even think of ending the relationship.
Why is this more powerful and much more effective?
Well, when a connection is strong enough between two people, that means that they really cannot even fathom the idea of not being together. When the connection is strong enough, your girlfriend won't even consider it an option to leave, the only option will be to find a way to patch things up. That is much more powerful than trying to sit down with her and telling her how much you love her, how much you need her, etc.
How do you BUILD that connection?
There is more than one way to go about doing this. You can learn how to use psychological triggers so that she automatically feels that connection to you. You can learn how to use proven seduction techniques so that her attraction is so strong she wants you and only you. What you have to realize is... whatever you should choose to do... it has to be based on making her feel that connection to you that is so powerful... it can overcome anything.
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